Memory and teaching her

Ask her to remember

• Say: “Remember that my dog is called Biscuit”, “What do you remember about me?”, “Forget that my dog is called Biscuit”.
• The Memory box: the brain icon, top right. Each memory has Save correction and Forget, and Remember adds a new one. This is the surest way to change or remove a memory.
• Things she keeps by herself: she may save lasting details you mention in passing, like a pet’s name or a plan, without saying so. Look in the Memory box now and then.
• What she tries to refuse: passwords, PINs, keys and codes, card numbers, bank details, and health details such as diagnoses or prescriptions. She replies “That looks sensitive, so it was not saved.” It isn’t guaranteed, so keep secrets out of what you tell her.
• Limits: 2,000 characters per memory, and 500 memories.

Teach her to change herself

Lila can change her own code: she edits it, tests it, and can undo it.

• How to ask: say “yourself”, “your own” or “your code”, so she knows you mean her. For example: “Change your own code so the timer chips are bigger”, then “What did you change?”, then “Undo that.”
• Safety: each edit is backed up first and checked afterwards; if the check fails, the change is rolled back by itself. She can’t touch her keys file. Changes load when she’s idle.
• Undo: “Undo that” reverses her most recent edit in the current session. Older edits keep their backup copies, and updates set her changes aside before replacing her code.
• Good to know: with your own keys, each change uses about 6,000 to 9,000 ElevenLabs credits.

How she learns from tasks

After a multi-step task works, she writes herself a short how-to note with the exact buttons, labels and order that worked, and reads it the next time. Notes live in data\skills in her folder.

Check-insEarly

About once an hour, after at least 5 quiet minutes, she may say something short (up to 18 words) or stay silent. Check-ins don’t take actions. “Be quiet” or “Not now” turns them off; “You can jump in” turns them back on. If they come back after a restart, say it again.

Her personality

British, cheeky and brief, and honest about what she actually checked. She occasionally makes up small personal stories about herself. Treat those as chat, not fact.